What Needs to Happen?

We've all heard how we need to speak positively about EVERYTHING -- to only talk and think about a situation in terms of how we want it to be, as The Law of Attraction states.

What this means is, we need to avoid talking / moaning / complaining about what we don't like about or what's going on with a situation that we've judged to be going 'wrong' and focus on our attention on what we REALLY want.

The thing is, if we're currently experiencing a situation which is difficult, how can we say and think it's easy or positive ... without feeling like we're lying, especially when we're talking to people who are in the 'know' or are our nearest and dearest?

And how do you do that ... when things just aren't going so well in the moment? (And you DEFINITELY don't want to keep getting more of the "not so good!")

If you're like me and you spend time inside you're head trying to 'work' things out ... those things that 'realistically' seem impossible ...

One way of dealing with this is to catch yourself in the moment that you're thinking about what you'd rather not have (analyzing it), then correct youself and refocus on the end result goal.

Sounds simple doens't it ... however simple sometimes isn't easy :)

Sometimes, the current reality iseems so bad, so uncomfortable, it's hard to ignore it. And generally speaking it becomes especially hard when interacting with the other people who are involved and / or know us well.

In the book The Science of Getting Rich, Wallace Wattles specifically instructs readers to only talk in the most positive terms about any situations. So if you're stuck and someone asks, what should you say?

Should you say it's a problem or should you say it's all going to be all right and feel like a liar when you smile and put on a positive front about something that's going badly wrong?

It's all about the language you use ...

If someone asks you about a situation that in your mind isn't going particularly well, instead of saying, "Things aren't so good," you can say ...

'Things are going well! I'm currently working on (state your situation / challenge), and as a matter of fact, I could use your help!'

People being what they are, are generally more inclined to support people/things/situations that are succeeding rather than things that aren't.

By using something like the above or something similar, you're putting your situation in its most positive light AND you're also more likely to get buy-in and support from others!

So next time you're inside you're head 'trying' to work something out ... and you can feel that downhill slide into despondancy happening ... give yourself a bit of a shake and ask yourself what you really want ... and what needs to happen in order for you to acheive your outcome!

Let me know how you get on.

Love life and live it creatively and on purpose!

Leanne
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How Easy is it to Have What You Want?

For a long time now I've put a lot of effort into creating my outcomes ... it's been hard work and stressful even though I love what I do. I continually seem to be pushing and drowning in overwhelm.

One of the things I've been able to do is think of things and it happens ... it's like magic really ...

For example the other day I was in the city, I looked up at the Crown Casino and thought ... wouldn't it be lovely to have a night in a luxurious room, with a view and valet parking and a meal and breakfast and a spa ...just me and my wonderful man!

There was no way it was going to happen so I wasn't attached to the outcome and I let the thought go ... I let the thought go so far out there that when my man came home a couple of days later and asked me whether I'd like Saturday or Sunday night in the Crown Casino I was thrilled but didn't link it to my 'daydream' a couple of days previous.

It wasn't until I was hopping out of the car in the Valet Parking area that I remembered having the thought at all. And boy oh boy the feeling that gave me when I remembered was just magnificent!

This was so easy and simple ... a thought ... a picture ... a feeling ... it was gone in the blink of an eye ... and a couple of days later it was there ... a reality ... in my wildest dreams I couldn't have worked out where this was going to come from.

And yet it appeared! It was such a learning lesson for me about how easy it is to have what I want. So the question now ... is how can I take that learning into the rest of my life?

And the question for you is how easy can you make having what you want? My guess is ... If I can do it you can too! Let me know how you get on.

Love life and live it creatively,

Leanne
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